The Writer's Way Community

A creative home for writers

Does any of this sound like you?

You dream of having a writing community or close writing friends, but you don't know how to find it.

Yes, I'm ready to join a life-changing community

Writing is solitary. You don't want to be alone anymore.

You long for a community that feels supportive. One that loves and accepts all types of writing, from fiction to romance to fantasy to science fiction to horror. We love and accept all genres here. 📚

You're ready for a writing community that doesn't fade out 

Maybe you've been in writing groups that last for a few months and then eventually fade out 😫. You're tired of it. You want a place to commit and know that you'll be held accountable so that you can actually achieve your dreams. 💫

You want to be taken seriously

You have the support, but your loved ones don't get it. They might say, "you've been working on this book for 2 years, when is it coming out?" thinking that is going to help you stay consistent (but it doesn't). Other writers get it. Being part of a writing community brings a certain synergy to your writing life. It helps you stay motivated so you can write and finish your books.

You want to learn & improve your writing life

At The Writer's Way, we love to learn 🧠.  Progress & process are our middle names! We develop tools that take us to our next level, so we can build the writing life we dream of. We know that writing is a skill, just like knitting or learning a language.

New in June 2025: Writing Buddy/CP Matchmaking

From my experience, lots of writers seek a writing buddy or CP to help them stay accountable and take their writing more seriously.

 

But most writers don't know where to find that, or feel intimidated by how to create it.

 

That’s why we created the Writing Buddy & CP Matching Program—a built-in support system inside The Writer’s Way membership designed to match you with intentionally based on compatibility. 

 

You'll get real connection, consistent accountability, and feedback from someone who gets it. You'll have someone to take you seriously, and you'll do the same for them.

 

Something magical happens in creative partnerships.

When you join the program, you can choose to be matched with:

 

A Writing Buddy – A fellow writer to check in with, share goals, celebrate wins, and lean on when motivation dips. No page swaps, just pure encouragement and accountability.

 

A Critique Partner (CP) – A writer at a similar stage who can provide feedback on your work, help you revise with clarity, and push your craft to the next level.

 

Or you can be matched with both!

 

You'll fill out an in-depth survey for either a Writing Buddy or CP (or both if you're looking for both). I designed each questionnaire using my ten years of experience to help you build writing relationships that are aligned, supportive, and built to last.

Yes, I'm ready to join a life-changing community

The Results of a Great Writing Buddy/CP Match


You take your writing more seriously

Knowing you'll have someone to check in with you and keep you accountable will get you to your goals 10x faster.

You recover faster from setbacks

Let's face it, life happens and we all fall off the writing wagon from time to time. But having a buddy or CP makes a difference. You'll have somewhere to land & get support to help you get back on the wagon. 

You write more consistently

Having someone checking in on you and encouraging you will keep you showing up to the page & making those dreams come true.

You uplevel your writing life

You finish drafts, revise with purpose, and submit your work if that's your goal. You’re not doing it in a vacuum. You'll have a cheerleader who is invested in your success.

But that's not all. Here's what else to expect in the membership 

Writing doesn't have to happen in isolation. Inside the community, you won't be alone. Here, you'll have the structure, support, and accountability to finally finish your novel. 

Creative Circle Sessions Weekly

 With Creative Circle sessions weekly,  accountability becomes part of your rhythm. By setting and sharing goals, reflecting on progress, and getting support in real time, you stay focused and keep going. 

Writing Check-Ins on Discord

Stay engaged between sessions with regular prompts and check-ins that gently nudge you to keep writing (without the guilt trip). You’ll always have a place to land when life tries to pull you away from the page. (And, it will.)

Cowriting Sessions (Live) for Writing Sprints

Show up and write. These scheduled sessions help you build writing into your week.  You can RSVP to sessions so you get email reminders! You can also volunteer to host your own built-in accountability.

Imagine if you could...

  • Open your inbox to a thoughtful critique partner who gets your voice and wants to help it shine.

     

  • Reconnect with your love of storytelling—not just the product, but the process.

  • Have a creative home where you’re always welcome, even when you’ve been “off track” for months.

  • Get matched with writing buddies and critique partners who actually fit your style, rhythm, and goals.

  • Show up imperfectly, joyfully, and consistently—without waiting to feel “ready” or “worthy.”

  • Trade inconsistent writing sessions for cozy co-writing dates with people who cheer you on.

  • Be surrounded by people who believe in you, even when you’re struggling to believe in yourself.

  • Have a community that's focused on self-compassion, creative recovery, and building a sustainable writing life - while also keeping your head in the game so you finish your drafts

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What's Included in The Writer's Way Membership

Pay every 2 months ($74), quarterly ($99), or annually ($299)—choose what works for you!


  • New for 2025: Writing Buddy/Critique Partner Matching Program

    Fill out a thoughtful questionnaire and get personally matched with a writing buddy/CP, or both--based on your writing style, goals, and preferences 

  • 1x Live Coaching Call with Monica per month

    Blast through challenges and roadblocks in group coaching so you can keep your writing momentum

  • 7+ Hours of Cowriting/Sprints Per Week

    Take action on your manuscript and write - you can even volunteer to host a sprint!

  • Writing Check-Ins on Discord

    Keep your head in the writing game and stay accountable

  • Weekly Creative Circle Sessions

    Connect with others in the community! Share your weekly wins, challenges, and goals to stay motivated. 

     

    Brainstorm: Get group input on your creative blocks or ideas for your WIP.

     

    Connect: Chat about writing, life, and everything in between. 

  • Live Expert Calls Monthly

    Learn from people in the industry! Examples from past calls: Tarot for Creativity, How to Write When You Have No Time, Life of an Indie Author, How to Create Focus, Scrivener Expert Workshop, Energy Protection for Writers

  • Live Masterclasses with Monica Every Quarter

    Masterclasses with Monica! Examples of past calls: Overcoming Scarcity and Creating Abundance, Leveraging Pleasure to Overcome Resistance, How to Stop Worrying What Other People Think of You

  • Masterclass & Expert Call Replay Library 

    Watch past masterclasses & expert calls anytime you'd like & so you can get closer to your dreams at your own convenience

  • Discord Channel & Cowriting/Body Doubling Channel

    Keep in touch with people in the community with Discord! Post funny memes, share your wins & challenges, and share resources.

     

    A Discord Bot is available 24/7 to write/sprint whenever you desire so you can write at any time - even at 2 am.

Yaaasss I am fucking ready

Let's make writing a priority.

Your writing life deserves it.


Meet your membership host

Monica Hay

I have a Master’s in Publishing from Portland State University and a Bachelor’s in English Literature from UC Berkeley. I often like to call myself a “recovering academic.”

 

I’ve worked at two different literary agencies & served as the Director’s Assistant at WriteOnCon, an online children’s publishing conference. My work has been featured in Dabble Writer, Perfect Your Process Summit, and multiple podcasts.

 

I blend my background in social work and book publishing to help my clients write. I focus on creative recovery and mastering the inner game of writing—the mind.

 

I’m passionate about helping writers embrace the “mess” of the writing process. My famous catchphrase is “No Mess, No Magic.”

 

I believe creativity is our birthright. And I believe that through the right supports and resources, we can create the writing life we dream of.

 

It's my mission to provide a space for you to grow as a writer, and create lasting friendships along the way.

The Writer's Way Membership

A creative home for writers

Pay every 2 months ($74), quarterly ($99), or annually ($299)—choose what works for you!


  • Writing Buddy/Critique Partner Matching! Fill out a thoughtful questionnaire and get personally matched with a writing buddy/CP, or both--based on your writing style, goals, and preferences 

  • Coworking Sessions/Cowriting Sessions to take action on your manuscript (10+ hours of cowriting per week)

  • Discord Community for ongoing support & connection

  • Creative Circle Sessions Each Week to:

    • Check in: Share your weekly wins, challenges, and goals to stay motivated
    • Brainstorm: get group input on your creative blocks or ideas for your writing
    • Connect: chat about the writing life in a space where people support you
  • Discord Coworking/Body Doubling Channel & a Sprint Bot/Channel available 24/7

  • Group Coaching with Monica once a month to blast through any writing challenges and roadblocks

  • Live Masterclasses & Journal Prompts

  • Live Expert Calls from people in the industry to learn & develop your craft

  • Writing Challenges once per quarter to incentivize and gamify writing

  • Masterclass & Expert Calls Replay Library (ability to watch all past expert calls & masterclasses)

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Got questions? We've got answers. If there's a question that you don't see an answer to, email support@monicahay.com.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a Writing Buddy?

Writing Buddy - also called Accountability Buddy, Writing Partner, Creative Companion, Writing Bestie, Cheerleader, Creative Collaborator.... whatever suits your fancy!

  • The main goal is a supportive relationship with another writer - not to swap pages
  • You check in, cheer each other on, and talk goals
  • Great for motivation, consistency & emotional support
  • Can still brainstorm/get help on story -related thing

Think of it like having a writing bestie: someone who gets it, and keeps you doing the work—especially when it gets hard.

 

This kind of relationship is powerful for taking yourself seriously.

 

You can still talk story & craft with this person! But the main goal isn’t that you have to swap pages and offer feedback/critique.

What is a Critique Partner?

Critique Partner - feedback partner, developmental partner. You choose your terms!

  • Feedback & craft support on pages
  • You swap pages and give feedback
  • Talk plot, pacing, characters, and revision ideas
  • Great for writers ready to improve their work and grow their craft

A good CP doesn’t just tell you what works or what doesn’t. They help you become a better writer.

 

They challenge and support you and help you level up. They’re your first reader, your revision brainstormer, your “this part isn’t landing yet” truth-teller. Think of them as a creative partner.

 

 

What is the timeline of the matching?

Good question!

 

 

Here’s how it works:

  • June 4 – Doors to The Writer’s Way Membership open! This is your chance to join and participate in the upcoming matching round.

  • June 6 – Surveys go live inside the membership. You’ll get access to both the Writing Buddy and Critique Partner forms to fill out based on your preferences.

  • June 11 – Doors close to the membership. After this date, no new members will be accepted—and we don’t know when it will open again. (For reference, the last time doors were open was September 2024.)

  • June 18 – Final day to fill out your surveys. This is your deadline to be considered for this round of matching.

  • June 19–July 2 – Our team carefully reviews submissions and works on creating thoughtful matches.

  • Early July – Matches will be announced! You'll receive your partner(s) and get access to the matching portal.

Where do I find the survey questions and how do I fill them out?

You’ll find a preview of all the Writing Buddy and Critique Partner questions inside the membership portal. This lets you take your time to reflect, draft your answers, and even write them in a separate doc before submitting.

 

The official surveys are hosted on Google Forms, and the links will go live on June 6. When you're ready, just copy and paste your answers into the form and hit submit!

 

✨ We highly recommend reading through the questions in advance so you can answer thoughtfully—these matches are meant to last, and the more intentional your answers, the better your match.

Why are you specifying between Writing Buddies and CPs for the matchmaking program?

Every writer is at a different stage in their journey. Some are still learning their voice, want to practice in private, and simply aren’t ready to share their art with others.

 

Those writers want to make writer relationships, but there aren’t a lot of spaces online for this.

 

Most spaces are built to help CPs match - which is great! But that often leaves writers who just want writer friends feeling left out.

 

It’s also important for me to note:

 

Sharing our writing is extremely vulnerable. I see a lot of writers in my practice who shared “baby art” and had poor experiences, and so they were left traumatized & put writing away for a long time.

 

Some writers want to keep their work close to them as they build confidence and skills.

 

I want to welcome those writers into this space. I want them to find creative relationships too.

What if I am not sure which I want? I might want a CP in the future, but I don’t know yet.

Totally valid! A lot of writers are in this place of uncertainty.

 

If this is you, I recommend signing up for a Writing Buddy first, depending on your goals. You can reach out to a CP in the future (by checking out the profiles of others in the community).

How does the matching process work?

How the Matching Process Works

Whether you’re looking for an accountability buddy, a critique partner, or both, our goal is to match you with someone whose writing goals, communication style, and experience level complement yours.

 

Step 1: Watch the Masterclass To Set Yourself Up for Success With Your Future Buddies

Watch "How to Be a Good Writing Buddy/CP Masterclass" on the membership portal. This is an hour masterclass required to watch in order to participate in the program. This ensures a strong foundation for everyone entering a match.

 

 

Step 2: Watch the Instructions Video to Know What to Expect 

Watch the "Instructions on Writing Buddy/CP Matching" video (about 10 minutes long) so you know what to expect in the matchmaking process.

 

Step 3: Fill Out the Form (s)

Once you sign up for the membership, you’ll receive an in-depth intake questionnaire. This is the most important part of the process, so take your time!

We’ll ask about:

  • Your genre(s) and tone/style

  • Your current writing project(s)

  • Your experience level (beginner, intermediate, advanced)

  • What kind of support you’re looking for (accountability, critique, co-working, etc.)

  • How often you want to check in or swap work

  • Your preferred communication style (email, Zoom, messaging, etc.)

  • Your availability and time zone

  • Any dealbreakers or preferences (e.g., no horror, only women-identifying partners, needs to be neurodivergent-friendly, etc.)

 

Step 4: We Review & Match You Thoughtfully

Using the information from the forms, we’ll match you with someone who aligns well with your writing journey. It’s not just about genre—it’s about pacing, tone, goals, and personality fit.

We look for:

  • Similar or complementary goals and commitment level

  • Compatible communication preferences

  • Overlapping writing stages (e.g., both in drafting or revising)

  • Genre matches or openness to cross-genre feedback

  • A balance of give and take in critique expectations

 

Step 5: You Get Introduced

Once you’re matched, you’ll receive an introduction email or message connecting you and your potential buddy/CP. This includes:

  • The answers your match provided in the survey

  • A checklist or guide to help you navigate the first meeting (such as goal-setting prompts or boundary-setting tips)

 

Step 6: Trial Period (Optional)

You are free to do a 2- to 4-week trial period. During this time:

  • Schedule at least one live check-in (Zoom, call, or messaging)

  • Share a small writing sample (if critique is part of your agreement)

  • Assess how well you communicate and support each other

 

Rematches and Re-Matching Policy

Sometimes partnerships just don’t work out. That’s okay! If you and your buddy are mismatched or your schedules change, you can go to the online portal for members and check out other profiles. If you’d like more matches in the future, you are responsible for browsing other members in the portal and reaching out to them.

How many matches can I get?

To help everyone create strong, meaningful connections, we cap one-on-one matches at 4 total per person. You can let us know how you'd like those split between writing buddies and critique partners.

 

If you're also interested in being part of a small group (3–4 people), you'll have the option to indicate that! Group matches are a great way to get extra support and community vibes — and you can opt in without it affecting your 1:1 match cap.

 

We can’t guarantee group matches for everyone, but we’ll absolutely try to make it work when we have compatible groups.

 

Is this program for all writers, or do I need to be at a certain level? 

Writers at all levels are welcome! We ask about your experience level to ensure you’re matched with someone compatible. 

Can I participate if I haven't finished my draft yet?

Yes! Writing Buddy matches are perfect for writers at any stage — from idea to final draft. Critique Partner matching is better suited if you have pages ready (or nearly ready) to exchange, but you don’t need to be done with a draft to participate.

Are all genres welcome? I write [short stories, cookbooks, graphic novels, etc]

Yes! Writers of all genres and formats are welcome to join the program—whether you’re working on fiction, nonfiction, memoir, poetry, screenplays, graphic novels, or even cookbooks. We celebrate creative diversity and believe every writer deserves community and support.

 

That said, some genres are more common than others, so while we do our best to match you with someone who shares similar interests, we can’t always guarantee a perfect genre match—especially for highly specialized formats like cookbooks, graphic novels, or experimental hybrid work.

 

In these cases, we focus on matching you with someone who:

  • Respects and appreciates your format

  • Shares similar writing goals or feedback needs

  • Is open to learning about or working outside their usual genre

You can also specify if a genre match is important to you, and we’ll take that into account when matching.

What if my buddy and I don't click?

No worries! Not every match will be perfect. We encourage you to allow time for your buddy/CP to make a true relationship first, before moving on. If you'd like a new match, you can head to the online portal and browse other members to reach out to new folks.

What kind of things should my buddy and I talk about?

This varies by partnership. We ask lots of questions about this in the questionnaire so we can match you with someone who is compatible.

 

Some common things include:

  • Setting writing goals & keeping each other accountable 

  • Checking in on progress

  • Swapping pages for feedback (if you get a CP, specifically)

  • Co-working or writing sprints

  • Talking through plot problems or mindset blocks

  • Brainstorming 

Can I get new matches later on?

While we can’t guarantee when the next round will open, we aim to offer it every 2–3 months. In the meantime, you can always browse and connect with others via the portal. 

What is the Writing Buddy/CP Portal?

It’s a searchable, private space on our membereshop portal where you can view other writers’ survey answers and reach out to anyone who feels like a good fit. Think of it as a bonus matchmaking tool you can use anytime.

Do I have to share my survey answers on the portal?

No. You'll have the option to opt in to have your profile included in the private membership portal. This gives you the opportunity to be discovered for future matches, even beyond this current round. Since we aren't guaranteeing that we'll offer the matchmaking program again, this is a great option for keeping the door open for new writing buddies later on.

 

If you prefer to stay more private, you can opt out, and your responses will only be used for your initial match.

 

If you do choose to opt in, you can still stay anonymous. You’re welcome to use a nickname or pen name, and we recommend using an email that doesn’t include your real name if anonymity is important to you.

Do I have to be an active Writer's Way Community member to participate in the matching program?

Yes. Due to the labor-intensive work of matching, and the security needs involved, you must be an active member.

Why is the Writing Buddy/Critique Partner Matching only available inside the membership?

Security, baby! Because relationships work best in a trusted, shared space. Hosting the program inside the community allows for more accountability, safety, and ease of communication, and ensures everyone has access to the portal and shared resources in a closed environment (aka, not where the whole internet can see).

Is my information safe on the portal? 

The portal is only accessible to people who’ve opted into the community, so it's a secure space. 

What if I don't know how to answer some of the questions on the questionnaire? 

That’s totally okay. Just be honest—there are no wrong answers. The more clarity you have, the easier it is to match you, but we understand that creative journeys evolve.

Do you screen or vet participants?

All members are required to watch the “How to Be a Good Buddy/CP” Masterclass before participating the matching program, and they're required to watch the Instructions Video.

 

That said, we don’t do background checks or monitor conversations — you are responsible for your own boundaries and decisions.

 

That’s also why participation is only open to active members of The Writer’s Way community. Limiting matches to paying members helps create a secure, intentional space—so you’re not being paired with random internet strangers. It ensures that everyone involved has taken a clear step to watch the masterclass, answer the surveys intentionally, and join a values-aligned community. This added layer of protection helps reduce the risk of inappropriate behavior, ghosting, or mismatched expectations, and increases the likelihood that you're connecting with respectful and committed writers.

Will someone monitor the relationships or mediate if there’s a conflict?

No. These partnerships are self-directed. You are responsible for your own communication, boundaries, and relationship. We trust our members to act with integrity and respect as adults.

What if I cancel my membership after I've gotten a match? Am I allowed to keep my match?

Yes. These matches are your relationships -- you can stay in contact with anyone you've been matched with whether or not you are an active community member!

 

That said, we'll remove your profile from the members portal, and you won't be able to browse more matches since you won't have access to the portal. 

Can I cancel anytime?

Yes, you can cancel your membership at any time! Just keep in mind that billing is done on a 2-month, 3-month, or yearly cycle (depending on the plan you chose). When you cancel, your membership will remain active until the end of your current billing period. After that, you won’t be charged again and your access will end.

Do you offer refunds?

Because of the in-depth nature of the matching process and the instant access you receive to all materials inside the membership portal—including expert calls, masterclasses, and community resources—we do not offer refunds. We’ve built this program to provide immediate value from day one, and much of the work to match you thoughtfully begins as soon as you join. Thanks for understanding!

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Here is what members say..

The Writers Way Membership has been nothing short of transformative for my writing journey. After years of procrastination and butting my head against resistance, I completed my first novel two months after joining the program. Monica is an incredibly compassionate coach, and I've received endless encouragement and support from the community she has built with WWM. She has instilled in me the importance of showing up for my writing consistently, and for the first time in over a decade, I was able to make the transition from just thinking about writing and dreaming about writing to actually writing.

 

Jordan


About a year and a half ago I was ready to quit writing.  But what I learned and experienced in Monica’s program gave me a new perspective and set me back on the road to being a creative.  That itself  was wonderful and life changing.

The membership is what has helped sustain and grow that perspective and I am so thankful I signed up.

In this space there is a community, accountability, support, co-working, brainstorming, and a place where people  understand the difficulties, joys, frustrations, and successes of being creative.  

Monica isn’t selling a magic pill here.  I can say with my whole heart, what she has created here is a place where we as writers can support each other and get the tools to live the dream.  It is one of the best things I ever did for myself and I cannot recommend it enough!

Chris


I can honestly say I would not be where I am today without Monica’s program. I joined in early 2023, and within a year, my manuscript was completed, edited, and published. I could not have done any of this without the training modules, group calls, and the amazing support of Monica and this diverse group of writers. If you’re serious about your writing and are wanting to level up and achieve your dreams, JOIN!

Tori


My favorite part of the experience was getting connected to the wonderful writing community though the membership that Monica has created. It’s a supportive group of mostly neuro-spicy creatives who understand what it’s like to have bad brain days. It’s a judgement free space that I know I can turn to when I need inspiration and support. As of now, I have actually completed a first draft of my novel and I am working on my second draft. I’ve had one of the most chaotic transitional years of my life, and the fact that I’ve maintained a consistent writing routine/ritual is all thanks to the tools and community Monica’s membership has provided. 

Caroline Patz

Writer & Actor

Hear from one of our members

Want to hear from a community member about her experience with a writing buddy & CP? Check out the video below.

Are you ready to join community?

I want you to imagine writing your book knowing you have a safe place to land. Joining cowriting sessions with your fellow creatives. Messaging your writing buddy or CP with an update & feeling like yeah. I can do this.

 

Pull a tarot card and see how this feels. Close your eyes, take a breath, and feel in your body: is this the right decision for me? What feels aligned? 

Count me in and sign me up

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